14 January 2025

Finding TV-Worthy Stories in Your Family Tree

Doing the research myself makes this story closer to my heart.
Doing the research myself makes this story closer to my heart.

Imagine you're a guest on PBS's "Finding Your Roots." Knowing what you already know, what are the juiciest stories we'd learn about your family?

There's little I can learn about my ancestors before they came to America. They came from small towns where most people were illiterate. I can't imagine they had a local newspaper.

I'll bet the "Finding Your Roots" staff would dig into my grandfather and my two great grandfathers.

The Patriot

My grandfather Adamo Leone sailed to America twice. Between voyages he returned to Italy to fight for his country in World War I.

What we heard: As a child I heard that Adamo had been a prison of war and he had to eat rats to stay alive. That's all any of us knew.

What I discovered: I researched Italian World War I army defeats online. The Battle of Caporetto led to the most Italian casualties and captures. A shocking 275,000 Italians wound up in two different prisoner of war camps in Austria. One of the camps, Mathausen, was also a notorious POW camp in World War II.

Next I found the website of the state archives of Adamo's province of Benevento. A listing for Adamo includes the volume and record number of his military record. The only way to see his military record was to go to the city of Benevento and ask to see it. I did that in 2018.

The page is completely filled with line entries. At age 20, the army assigned him to the 2nd regiment of the infantry. Six months later they gave him one year's convalescence leave, but it doesn't say what was wrong with him. Then there were different calls to arms to which he didn't respond. He was in New York City at the time.

Then in August 1915, he received the order to return to Italy and go to war. Not all Italian men in America responded to that call, but Adamo did. In 1917 the Italian Army promoted him to the rank of corporal. Later that year, as I had guessed from my research, he fought in the Battle of Caporetto. The record confirms that he became a POW in Mathausen in Austria. Adamo's liberation came exactly one year later. The Italian Army granted him an honorable discharge. They sent him home to recuperate.

He left for New York again on 15 Feb 1920. The Italian government paid his fare. Two years later he married my grandmother and worked as a shoemaker.

I watched a movie that took place in Adamo's POW camp during World War II—"The Photographer of Mauthausen". I couldn't stop crying.

The Businessman

My great grandfather Giovanni Sarracino came to New York with no education. He somehow wound up owning a commercial/residential building on a busy corner in the Bronx.

What we heard: All I ever knew was that Giovanni and his wife came from a town called Pastene. No one knew how to spell it, and there is another town with a name that sounds the same. So we never knew where this branch came from exactly.

What I discovered: Eight months after Giovanni married Maria Rosa, they had a child unknown to us. Little Carmine Antonio died within seven months. The couple left for America to join Maria Rosa's family in the Bronx, New York, in 1899. (Her father, my 2nd great grandfather, was my first immigrant ancestor.) Maria Rosa became pregnant right after Carmine Antonio was born. She was six months pregnant with my grandmother when she made that long voyage.

Giovanni worked as a bartender in a saloon, then became the storekeeper of the saloon. Later he was a building painter. During World War I he was a machinist's helper for a construction contractor. This may have been to aid the war effort because he returned to being a building painter after the war.

In the 1940 U.S. census, Giovanni owned a "beer garden". Since he owned the building at 603 Morris Avenue, I can assume the beer garden was the saloon on the ground floor. Giovanni's son Alfredo owned a butcher shop in this building. His other son Amelio owned a photography studio in this building.

I don't know how Giovanni and his brother-in-law Semplicio became property owners. They went from working for a saloon or a brewery to owning the building. I found one legal document that gives me a clue. Semplicio seemed to find a legal loophole in his lease and took extreme advantage of it. They were a couple of shrewd businessmen.

The Man of God

My great grandfather Francesco Iamarino came to America at least five times. On one of his trips, he felt inspired by a church in a Bronx neighborhood. Despite deep Catholic roots, he returned to Italy and founded a non-Catholic church. It carries on to this day.

What we heard: My grandfather Pietro said his father became an evangelical minister. He said the local Catholic church denounced Francesco because of this.

What I discovered: Francesco made his first trip to America in August 1903. He left his pregnant wife and infant son Pietro behind. He joined his brother Giuseppe in the Bronx and was back in Italy in time for his daughter's birth in February 1904.

In 1909, Francesco again joined his brother Giuseppe in the Bronx. He joined Giuseppe another time in late 1913. During one of these visits, in 1903, 1909, or 1913, he had a religious awakening. I learned this story from his granddaughter, my cousin Maria. During one of his stays in the Bronx, he passed by a church and felt moved by their songs and what they had to say. He felt it was his calling to return home to Italy and start a church like this one.

No one was living in his old house in Colle Sannita when I saw it in 2018, but his chapel still exists. The family was renovating the building to benefit the flock Francesco had grown.

Francesco made his last trip to America in 1929, this time going to Ohio. He visited his son Pietro and met Pietro's wife Lucy (my grandmother) and their baby, my Aunt Lillian. Lillian's real name was Libera, named for Francesco's wife. He would also have seen Lucy's father for the first time in years—his second cousin Pasquale.


Each of these stories deserves mention in my "Finding Your Roots" episode. But The Patriot's story would make the best TV. Imagine the stock footage and newspaper accounts of the disastrous Battle of Caporetto. Picture the still photographs of emaciated prisoners of war looking like skeletons, barely surviving.

Contrast this with Adamo's life in America after the war. He was a shoemaker in Italy before he turned 20. In New York he worked for a 5th Avenue shoe store, owned a store in the Bronx, then made saddles and holsters for the NYPD. His only son Johnny served in World War II. His US Army Air Corps base in Italy wasn't too far from Adamo's hometown. Johnny died during a bombing run not far from Austria and the nightmare Adamo survived.

It's important to stop and reflect on your family stories once in a while. Which of your ancestors' stories would make it into your "Finding Your Roots" episode?

07 January 2025

5 Steps to Making a Cousin Connection

It's easy to get sidetracked when searching for a cousin connection. Follow these 5 steps for the best results.
It's easy to get sidetracked when searching for a cousin connection. Follow these 5 steps for the best results.

I've been having a conversation on Ancestry.com with a man who found his ancestors in my family tree. Let's call him CP. It's rare that I hear from someone with roots in this particular little Italian town of Santa Paolina. I'm eager to figure out our connection.

I have to remind you that my family tree encompasses entire towns. All my people came from tiny, neighboring Italian towns. Almost everyone from there has a connection by blood or marriage. That's why CP's ancestors are in my tree without a cousin connection to me.

One of CP's ancestors was Rosaria Consolazio. My 2nd great grandmother Vittoria Consolazio's paternal side came from Santa Paolina. But there's a big problem. Rosaria's death record names her parents, but there are no records for her siblings. She's a dead end.

If the most enticing lead to a cousin connection won't work, what should we do next? Let's go through the best steps to take to make a cousin connection. Keep in mind, these steps won't find a cousin connection if there isn't one. But they will build and strengthen a big branch of your family tree. Let's get started.

1. Set a Place at the Table

Work your potential cousin into your family tree in any way you can. Use the details they've told you, their family tree, and online searches. This will give you an important visual of their family.

When I fit CP into my family tree, Family Tree Maker found 2 types of relationships between us:

  • 2nd great grand nephew of wife of uncle of husband of 3rd great aunt (a Consolazio) of me
  • 3rd great grand nephew of husband of 5th great aunt (a Ricciardelli) of me

2. Take a Good Look Around

Find the last names among your potential cousin's ancestors that mean anything to you. Search for more details about these people and their families.

I see a few last names that I know are common to the town of Santa Paolina. (I know this thanks to the work I've done with the town's vital records.) I also see a few missing generations I may be able to find among the town's vital records. Tons of vital records are available on the Antenati website. I've already downloaded them to my computer and renamed them to make searchable.

It's clear that CP's family tree has something else in common with mine. It has people from Santa Paolina who married people from the neighboring town of Tufo. That means I need to search those vital records, too. I haven't renamed all the Tufo records yet, so some of my searches will be manual.

As I add more parents, spouses, and children to CP's family tree, I keep looking at the index list in Family Tree Maker. Do I already have anyone who may be a match for this new addition? It could help if I add someone who turns out to be a known cousin of mine. That could lead to a common ancestor for CP and me.

3. Search, Search, and Search Some More

Work through your potential cousin's closest families. Keep finding records and sources for all their direct ancestors. You need to build out their families. Find the siblings of their direct ancestors. Find out who they married. Find their children and see who they married. One of those extended family members may already be in your family tree. They could be the piece you need to solve the puzzle.

Keep your focus on the potential cousin's blood relatives. You may find an interesting lead in an in-law's family, but that's unlikely to get you the answer you need.

4. Stay on a Logical Path

Remember to think through your logical plan for each person who's missing an ancestor. Based on what you know so far, search for a person's birth, marriage, and death records. Search for their children and who their children married. Search for their siblings. Build out this one person's family as much as you can.

I had one woman, CP's 3rd great grandmother Giovanna, who was missing her parents. Here's how I expanded her family and added to CP's branch:

  • I found Giovanna's death record, giving me the names of her parents and her approximate year of birth.
  • I found her marriage record because I knew her husband's name and that she had a child in 1834. (I worked backwards from 1834 until I found her in the town's annual marriage index.)
  • I found her 1811 birth record that shows the same parents as her death record and her marriage record. This makes Giovanna's vital records complete and confirms the information I had.
  • Armed with her marriage date and death date, I located another 3 children for her.
  • I moved up to her parents—CP's 4th great grandparents. I found their 1809 marriage record and learned their parents' names. These are CP's 5th great grandparents who were born in the 1760s. The town's vital records won't let us go any further back. This generation died before civil record keeping began.
  • I looked for death records for CP's 4th great grandparents and found two of them. One was Domenico (father of the Giovanna who started this journey), and he was in my tree already. Until this moment, I didn't have enough facts to see he was the same person. That led to my next step.
  • I searched for details about Domenico's three wives and his children. I found a ton of facts and added 45 people to CP's branch of my family tree, all based on vital records.

I still can't find a common ancestor for CP and me. We're either completely unrelated or our connection goes back to the 1700s. That's too early for Italian vital records.

5. Use DNA

You can certainly start with this step—you may get lucky. Use what DNA tells you as you run through the previous steps.

If your potential cousin and you have taken a DNA test, are you matches? If so, use your DNA website's estimated relationship to figure out where your connection should be. Consult this relationship calculator to see which of your great grandparents is key.

CP and I are not DNA matches. He's not a match to my mother, and his son is not a match to my mother or me. This could mean we have no connection, or it could mean our connection is too distant. Once again, my research is stuck because I have no vital records to connect our ancestors from the mid 1700s.

My earliest documented Consolazio ancestor from Santa Paolina was born about 1725. Buonaventura Consolazio was my 7th great grandfather. CP and I could have a connection through Buonaventura or one of his children. If so, we'd be 7th or 8th cousins. So far I can't prove anything.

UPDATE: I did it! I found the elusive connection and made CP my 6th cousin twice removed. It's a crazy story. One of his direct ancestors was a dead end because the 1859 death records aren't available. I know she died on 15 Apr 1859 because it's noted on her daughter's 1864 marriage record. But then I discovered the 1859 death index is online. I found her listing with the same date, and it names her parents. Her mother is my 7th great aunt. Her grandparents are my 7th great grandparents. NEVER GIVE UP!

These 5 steps are very important to making a cousin connection. I'll continue to build out my many family branches in the little towns of Santa Paolina and Tufo. You never know what you'll find.

31 December 2024

Commit to This One Genealogy Project

No time for a genealogy marathon? Commit to one family tree project and tackle it in sprints.
No time for a genealogy marathon? Commit to one family tree project and tackle it in sprints.

As I hope you noticed, I haven't publish a new genealogy article for the last two weeks. I had to travel to help my parents move, and after that was Christmas. But the visit gave seven of us COVID-19, so there was no Christmas.

Did I put the brakes on my family tree progress during that time? Well, helping my parents move was beyond exhausting, so I had no time for genealogy. But COVID has only slowed me down a bit. As sick as I am, I've spent at least a half-day every day adding people and source citations to my family tree. It helps keep my mind off my symptoms.

My overwhelming project in 2024 has been to create thousands of source citations I'd left out. I used Family Tree Analyzer to create a spreadsheet of everyone in my family tree who had no citations at all. My tree has 83,000 people, and I still have 62,000 people with no citations. That's embarrassing.

But I know why I skipped them in the past. I have easy access to the vital records for my Italian nationals. I knew I could go back at any time and create the source citations. But yikes! I went too far.

Because this project seems as if it'll take a few years, I need to liven things up sometimes. Instead of working my way down the list, I jump on opportunities.

When a man contacted me on Ancestry about his ancestors in my family tree, I decided to kill two birds with one stone. I added missing source citations to his people and crossed them off my citation to-do list.

I haven't found a cousin connection for the two of us, but his people are from my 2nd great grandmother's hometown. Long ago I downloaded all the available vital records for the town to my computer. (These mass-downloads are no longer easy to do. Websites block any attempts.) Then I renamed each of the more than 12,000 documents to make them easy to search on my computer.

I built out all my closest families from the town, and I completed their source citations. But I have a lot more families to build. With a bit of luck, I may find my connection to the man who contacted me.

Channel Your Energy into One Important Project

I know you aren't all as lucky as I am—able to spend several hours a day knee-deep in genealogy. But if you focus on one project that's important to you, you can make progress in smaller amounts of time.

If you had to choose one genealogy project that's important to you, what would it be? Here are some ideas to get you thinking:

Imagine you've chosen that one project, and you're committed to spending a little bit of time on it every day you can. After a short time you can make measurable progress! In my half-days last week, I added more than 100 new people with source citations, and made new family connections.

What's your top-priority genealogy project for 2025? Now, is it time for another dose of medicine yet?