03 February 2026

What Can You Learn About Your Ancestors' Daily Lives?

Last week a man posted in the "My Italian Family Tree" Facebook group. It wasn't the typical post. He said he wants to know more about his Italian ancestors. He's seen their birth, marriage, and death records, but he wants to know more about their lives. I know my 19th century ancestors were illiterate peasants living in small towns. There was no local newspaper covering their exploits since they couldn't read.

Ancient Roots—Not Names

But we can learn something about our ancestors' lives if we look at the history of the place and the people. They call my ancestors' general area the Sannio or the Sannita region today. In Roman times they called it Samnium—named for the ancient Samnites. And when I say ancient, I mean ANCIENT. The Samnites were in my ancestors' area as early as the 8th century BC.

An ancient map of Southern Italy is transposed over the Google Maps view. This provides an important clue.
Placing an ancient map over a current one puts my ancestors in a key place in history.

The Samnites were a league of several independent tribes. They banded together to fight against the Romans many times. They were farmers who raised crops and livestock. They also fished in their rivers and mined iron ore.

One characteristic of the Samnites that's interesting to me is their physical description. They didn't look like the typical dark Southern Italians. Many had blond hair and blue eyes, as do I, and as did some of my great grandparents. Historians say this coloring comes from the Ligurian people. They settled alongside the Italic people early on. Among these people were some Gauls. Gaul was a region that today is France, part of Belgium, Western Germany, and Northern Italy.

When I took a DNA test in 2012, my husband guessed I would find some German in my pie chart. It would explain my great grandfather Giovanni's looks. But there is no German in my DNA. These days my AncestryDNA test does show 2% France, which is new. My Ancient Origins on MyHeritage say I'm a solid Roman by the Roman Era and pure Italian by the Middle Ages. Still, I have blue-green eyes and my hair was blond in my youth.

The Life of a Peasant

I searched for details of Southern Italian peasant life in general. Their daily life was much like life in the Southern U.S., as described in William Faulkner's novels. (I've been reading his books in order of publication since November.) Faulkner's novels cover a lot of time, from pre-Civil War to the 1950s. In the rural Mississippi of his novels, there were a few rich landowners, and many workers. The workers never seemed to get ahead. They worked the fields, raised livestock, repaired their clothing, tools, cabins and barns. They grew the food they ate. The sharecroppers didn't get to keep all they grew.

The same is true of my Italian ancestors. Children began working very young, performing whatever tasks they could. Older boys and men did the more demanding labor. Older girls and women managed the household. The females would milk the cow, fetch water, take the clothes to the river for washing, and feed the family. They would also make and mend the family's clothing. The males would plow the fields, plant and harvest the crops, and maintain any structures.

In Southern Italy, the Church or members of the ruling class were the rich landowners. I have a copy of a book that is invaluable to my family tree research. It is "Colle Sannita nel 1742" by Dr. Fabio Paolucci. Dr. Paolucci has shown me documents from the town bearing my maiden name as early as the 1500s.

His book is a detailed 1742 census of the town's 600 or so households. Often the descriptions say that the head of household "has" a vineyard or land that's leased to him by the Church. Sometimes he takes care of livestock owned by the Church. The book also details the land owned by 35 priests and clerics. There's also an accounting of the land and livestock owned by more than a dozen churches and chapels.

Based on their vital records, I know my people were farmers or they practiced a trade needed by the town. They were shoemakers, barbers, tailors, midwives, and seamstresses.

Newspaper Coverage, or Lack Thereof

While I won't find my family members in old Italian newspapers, I can search for mentions of their towns. La Stampa is an Italian newspaper I can access online. The issues go back to its founding in 1867. I found only one thing, and it's about my maternal grandfather's town. On 8 Oct 1872 in Baselice, they opened a government telegraph for both government and private use.

I had better luck with La Stampa when I wanted to see coverage of Italian battles during the first World War. Based in Torino, I wouldn't expect La Stampa to cover my little Southern Italian towns.

I answered that Facebook post. I suggesting he look into the history of his ancestors' place and the people (in general) who lived there. I came away from my research with a better idea of my ancestors' lives. And a better idea why I don't look how you might expect an Italian to look.

27 January 2026

Why I Prefer Researching Dead Ancestors

It started out so innocently. "Let me find one new DNA match to research." A few hours later, I have a 6th cousin who's a registered sex offender and had planned several murders. I'll take a pass on adding his name to my family tree.

Years ago I jumped on the chance to upload my AncestryDNA zip file to a site called FamilyTreeDNA for free. I hadn't checked that site for new DNA matches in a long time, so I logged in to see what's new.

A crypt in an Italian cemetery is full stacked skulls and bones. It's my genealogy happy place.
Discovering this living 6th cousin is making me run back to my dead ancestors.

Scrolling down the list, I found someone with the same last name as my great grandmother, so I opened his tree. I also found a tree for the same family on Ancestry. I consulted the Ancestry tree because it has plenty of source citations.

I saw that my DNA match's grandmother also had a last name from my family: Ricciardelli. Researching the grandfather with the familiar last name did not lead back to my family. So I got to work on the Ricciardelli side.

That name comes from Santa Paolina, Avellino, Italy. My 2nd great grandmother Colomba Consolazio was born there. And she had a grandmother named Colomba Ricciardelli. I've added my closest relatives from this town to my family tree. But there are so many more relatives I can add.

This DNA match gave me that chance. I got to work adding birth, marriage, and death dates to the ancestors on this Ricciardelli branch. It was easy to see that the Ricciardelli line provides my connection to this DNA match.

After I went up my match's tree as far as I could, I came back down to add U.S. source citations. I added facts and citations for:

  • censuses
  • draft cards
  • immigration records, and
  • Social Security Death Index records.

When I came down to a generation that's about my age, I realized the family moved from the east coast to California. I love California's records! If you know their mother's maiden name, you can find birth records through 1995 and death records through 1997. These records show the person's:

  • full name
  • full date of birth or death
  • mother's maiden name
  • county of birth or death.

I got to the point where I knew my DNA match was the son of one of 4 brothers. But I couldn't tell which brother it was. I took another look at my match's tree on FamilyTreeDNA and realized I know his mother's maiden name! In the California Birth Index I found two people with the correct mother's maiden name. One of the two, a female, owns the Ancestry family tree I used for my research. The other person, a male, has a middle name that made him a good prospect for a regular internet search.

The results made me push myself away from my desk. The crime he attempted, and the criminal content in his possession, were the last thing I expected to discover. There are enough facts there for me to be sure this 6th cousin and the registered sex offender are the same person.

But things get more interesting. Remember I found California birth records for a brother and a sister. My FamilyTreeDNA match does not have the criminal's name. His test account has a description that is very helpful. It says that my DNA match is the uncle of the brother and sister from the California Birth Index. But the account is (was?) managed by the sex offender. He says he and his sister (whom he names) are trying to get past a brick wall on their paternal line. To do this, they convinced their uncle to take a DNA test.

The family tree connected to the DNA test doesn't have the uncle as the home person. That was throwing me off by a generation. The home person is the criminal, and IT SHOWS HIS NAME. This should be private since he's living. His sister's name is private. His parents and uncles' names are private. But his name is there despite having no death date.

I don't know if this peculiarity has any connection to legal proceedings, but it's all very creepy.

In the end, I marked the uncle as a DNA match in my family tree. Then I added a private note, one that will not appear in my online tree, explaining what I discovered.

This was not the playful genealogy romp I expected. I'll continue building out this Ricciardelli branch from Italian vital records. Then I'll find some more dead people to hang out with.

20 January 2026

House Hunters: Genealogy Edition

I roll my eyes when I see posts detailing the history of homes in England. Oh, you can dig up details about your grandmother's house from the 1700s? Isn't that special. In the United States, the oldest building my ancestors ever lived in dates back to about 1900. And the city tore it down decades ago. Nothing lasts too long here.

Anything in this country built in the 1700s is a museum. I had the pleasure of volunteering in one such museum years ago. The Court Inn on Court Street in Newtown, Pennsylvania, dates back to 1733. It's surrounded by elegant old homes. Walking down the street, you feel as if you're back in the Colonial Era. Two doors down from the inn is a beautiful brick home built in 1836. Two blocks down is a house built in 1880, but the original part of the house dates back to 1811. Next door is a stone house built in 1870.

That's ancient for America!

Different websites may offer different details about the houses in your family tree.
Different websites may offer different details about the houses in your family tree.

If you want to research a house in the U.S., real estate websites are your best bet. I use 3 different websites because they can have different contents. It's a lot of fun when you can view interior photos. I particularly enjoyed looking at the old homes in Newtown, Pennsylvania. They're what I loved most about living there.

Which homes do you want to research? Or do you want to snoop on the neighbors?

Note that I've used purple text in the lists below for features that are very much the same on each website.

1. Zillow.com

My favorite feature of Zillow.com is that it shows property boundaries. Enter an address (or a street and town), then scroll down past the regular map. Look for a satellite image of the neighborhood. If it isn't showing white boundary lines, click the Lot Lines button. Zillow places an estimated home value on each house in the satellite image. Based on my neighborhood, this seems to be the last sale price. Zillow:

  • Shows property boundaries with estimated property values.
  • Shows the realtor's photos if the house is on the market or was on the market in recent years.
  • Provides their own estimate of the property's value.
  • Includes many details, including:
    • number of bedrooms and baths
    • square footage
    • lot size
    • type of heating
    • architectural style
    • year built
  • Shows the property on a map with comparable homes for sale nearby.
  • Shows the price history: the asking price when listed and the sale price going back several years.
  • Shows the local tax and assessment history going back several years.

2. Realtor.com

This is my first stop when I know a house is for sale. Realtor:

  • Shows property boundaries as you hover your mouse over the map. But it's ignoring my house. I wish the tax assessor would ignore my house.
  • Shows the realtor's photos if the house is on the market or was on the market in recent years.
  • Provides an estimate of the property's value. They base it on tax records and recent sale prices of comparable properties.
  • Includes many details, including:
    • number of bedrooms and baths
    • square footage
    • lot size
    • type of heating
    • architectural style
    • year built
  • Shows the price history: the asking price when listed and the sale price going back several years.
  • Shows the local tax and assessment history going back several years.

3. Trulia.com

Zillow owns Trulia, but Trulia doesn't have the property boundaries. Trulia:

  • Shows the realtor's photos if the house is on the market or was on the market in recent years.
  • Provides their own estimate of the property's value.
  • Includes many details, including:
    • number of bedrooms and baths
    • square footage
    • lot size
    • type of heating
    • architectural style
    • year built
  • Shows the property on a map with comparable homes for sale nearby.
  • Shows the price history: the asking price when listed and the sale price going back several years.
  • May show recent local tax and assessment.

For me, it was fun looking up the house in California where I was a baby. When I was born, there was a farm in the backyard. Now a huge highway is right over the back fence! Our New Jersey house has interior photos from its last sale in 2020. The last owner upgraded so much, I don't recognize any rooms!

We are a weird place. This is why actual ancient architecture blows our minds.